Taking stock – January 2018
I was going to start this by commenting that it was a Clayton’s post. But then I realised that probably didn’t translate internationally (and you all know I have a vast international audience!). For the non-Aussies, or anyone under 30… Claytons was a non-alcoholic beer (circa 1970s-80s) and its slogan was ‘the beer you have when you’re not having a beer’. It kinda became entrenched in our vernacular – at least for those of us old enough to remember it, as a phrase to indicate something’s a poor imitation of something else.
Like this post….in which I share random stuff I’m doing. Or NOT doing as the case may be.
Realising
I’ve not written anything about my 50th birthday celebrations. Perhaps they deserve their own post. But for those who didn’t see the pictures plastered over social media, the weather and my boat cruise were fabulous and it’s certainly one of the highlights of my 50 years on this earth.
Reading
Less than I used to. I must be one of the few people who hopes or plans to do LESS reading than I did in 2017. I read over 150 books then (about three/week) and my goal for this year is about 100. I figure two books a week is manageable and allows enough time for other pursuits. Having said that, I’ve already read 10 books in the four weeks of January.
Watching
Less reading means I’ve watched more TV than usual. In particular (in the last couple of weeks alone) I’ve binged on Alias Grace and Sinner on Netflix, enjoying them both. And Chance on SBS On Demand here in Australia. I’m not as smitten by it but will give the second season a go. (And I note it’s been axed after s2.)
Writing
Nothing other than book reviews. My non-bookish blog posts have come to a bit of a halt and I’ve struggled with inspiration and motivation. I’ve also done NOTHING on my various half-started novels.
Planning
My overseas travel. I’ve talked about my trip to Europe later this year and have finally booked my flights, which required me to make firm decisions re dates and so forth. I’m yet to work out specific destinations and accommodation and the like, but I’m flying into London in late August and will traipse around Cornwall and the Cotswolds for 10-12 days and then to Italy for 2-3 weeks – which includes the writing retreat for a week in Tuscany.
Lusting
After a pair of these shoes which I think would be perfect for: winter; and travel. Of course the black would be extremely sensible… given most of my clothes are black. The grey would make sense… I mean, they’d look okay with most stuff I own and I do have a grey bag I use. So naturally I really really want the pink. Cos, well, they’re pink and COMPLETELY impractical. Not to mention cute.
Worrying / thinking
More about work than I’d prefer. Although I don’t feel hugely stressed, I’m waking thinking about work stuff a lot again and don’t particularly like that feeling. Mostly I’m enjoying my job and I certainly enjoy the full-time salary that comes with it.
Struggling
To work out where I fit in. I turned 50 in December and I’ve been buoyed by other bloggers and online friends my age – though in some ways also struggle to relate to them. Their kids are leaving home or embarking on new adventures or they’re becoming grandparents and their focus changing. In some ways there seems minimal consolation in turning 50 – with retirement a long way off – and I’m not exactly sure what there is to look forward to, given the lack of family / partner and so forth.
Or I could just be feeling self pity / be in a bad mood / more menopausal than I realise. #meh
What’s good / bad / ugly in your world? Any thoughts on which colour shoes to buy? Or my meh-ness?
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@Kanga_Rue
February 1, 2018Buy all three! Rx
Debbish
February 1, 2018Ha! Am supposed to be saving for aforementioned travel. (Including the trip I’ve not yet told ‘my readers’ about!)
Jo
February 1, 2018I reckon the grey – will cover all travel bases…
Debbish
February 1, 2018I know, but they’re less ‘fun’ than the pink. The pink seem extreme… like they’re sending a message. Not sure what message, but still…
Natalie
February 1, 2018Your travel itinerary sounds fabulous. Would planning a social activity, or doing something physical make you feel better and less meh?
Debbish
February 1, 2018Maybe…. I’m doing pilates at the moment – I actually had that in there as a ‘thing’ but it got too long so took it out. But I know what you mean. It’s almost like I need a project.
csuhpat1
February 1, 2018Grey will would nice on your trips.
Debbish
February 2, 2018It would, wouldn’t it?! I’m really torn between the pink and grey!
Kooky Chic
February 1, 2018Buy the pink. They will “pop” with the black and pink always goes beautifully with grey.
Debbish
February 1, 2018I feel like the pink are more fun. Not necessarily like me at all!
writeofthemiddle
February 1, 2018I like the pink shoes which surprises me … but I seem to be drawn to them the most. So envious of your upcoming travels but very excited for you! 🙂 #TeamLovinLife
Debbish
February 1, 2018I think it’s cos the pink are less practical. They look cute / fun, and the grey and black look a bit more like normal sneakers!
Kate W
February 1, 2018Gorgeous pic on the boat!
Debbish
February 1, 2018Thanks… looks very posey but I think I was just being silly at the time!
Suger
February 1, 2018I loved every second of your birthday on social media! It was so joyful and fun. And THOSE SHOES, yes please. Is it ott to want one of each? Probably, but meh. Haha.
Debbish
February 1, 2018Ah yes, it was an amazing day and I felt so *blessed* (apols for wanky word) to have great weather and a lovely time. And yes, I’m tempted to get the grey and pink shoes but suspect it would be pretty frivolous of me….
sizzlesue15
February 1, 2018What date are you leaving Deb and I’ll have my bags packed ready to go! 🙂
Debbish
February 1, 2018Ha! 25th August I think, to London. Then onto Rome on 5th Sept and back around 25/26th Sept. I’m sure it’ll come around pretty quickly.
Jodie
February 1, 2018It’s nice to catch up Deb!!
As a fashion blogger, I’d just like to say that the pink shoes are the best ever!! Blush is such the “it” color of the year and they really will go with everything!!!
XOXO
Jodie
http://www.jtouchofstyle.com
Debbish
February 1, 2018I know, the pink really leap out at me. I really want them but worry that I SHOULD buy the grey. (If I get any!)
leannelc
February 1, 2018I loved the Claytons reference Deb – it’s one I use regularly and I forget how other’s may not understand it. I referred to my hub and me being chalk and cheese – and apparently that’s not an expression heard in the US either – weird! Anyhooo – so glad your 50th was fabulous – you look gorgeous in that pic (very Mediterraenian Royalty-ish). Sue and I are planning a Round-Up Link up from the end of Feb – hopefully you’ll pop over and link up if you do one then. xx
Debbish
February 1, 2018Sounds good. I’m hoping to get my blogging mojo back Leanne. I’ve started a few posts but just not done any more with them….
Denyse Whelan Blogs
February 1, 2018I would buy the pink (and the practical black) because I regret not listening to my emotional shopper at times and being bloody practical all the time. So: that photo of you on the boat is just sooooo gooood. Colour is your thing. Not black (well some black!). I am not surprised about the work thoughts because “you are who you are” but I also can see that you are not going to let it get to you either. I love reading your updates. Please keep them coming. Denyse x
Debbish
February 1, 2018Oh thank you. Someone else made a lovely comment recently on FB about how they miss my ramblings and the way my mind works which was lovely.
And yes, I think I want to buy the pink shoes for the same reason. Because they’re NOT practical. And they’re frivolous. The exact same reasons I think I shouldn’t buy them!
Satu
February 1, 2018You should get the pink shoes, and maybe the gray shoes too!
I’m also turning 50 in May. I’ve decided that it’s not enough to have one party for that, my whole year is to be the 50th anniversary celebration. I haven’t yet found a tiara to wear to all my parties. 😀
Debbish
February 1, 2018Oh, I’d love to see some pictures when the time comes Satu. I’ve missed your blogging etc… And yes – extend the celebrations for as long as possible! xx
kathymarris
February 1, 2018Alias Grace and Sinner were two of my favourite Netflix shows for 2017! You have had an epic start to 2018 and I think the year is just going to get better and better for you. It’s always wonderful to have a great holiday to look forward to. As you know I’m currently living the dream travelling around in my caravan.
Debbish
February 1, 2018I’ve been following your travels Kathy and feel very envious. I’m not sure how I’d cope in a caravan but I love the idea of it!
Vanessa
February 2, 2018I often feel a disconnect with people my own age too as they’re either in kid-land or dual-income lets-have-holidays land, neither of which I fit into.
Debbish
February 2, 2018Yes…. it’s something I’m really noticing lately. A lot of people my age are preoccupied with their kids finishing school / Uni or having kids etc… And I’m far from seeing myself as a ‘grandparent’.
Sanch @ Sanch Writes
February 2, 2018Pink is fine! Years ago, I had a pair of orange shoes which went with nothing I wore but was a nice bright colour and I loved it! 😀 I’ll let you know how I go when I turn 50 and everyone’s talking about kids leaving home or something. Although even now, I feel a bit strange when most friends either have babies or want babies.
Debbish
February 4, 2018I always wanted them and think I just expected my time would come… I was 41 before I panicked and tried to go it alone!
Emma
February 4, 2018I would buy pink and black and grey and not regret it. I’ve just started watching Alias Grace and so far am enjoying it. I liked The Sinner too, though I think it could have been an episode or so less.
Debbish
February 4, 2018Yes, I’d agree with you re The Sinner. It dragged a little after the ‘reveal’. I read Alias Grace years ago but hadn’t remembered it which was good. It’s a good production.
seizetheday20
February 4, 2018Deb – If you love the pink, get the pink! As the saying goes, “Life is short, buy the shoes!” 🙂 #TeamLovinLife
Debbish
February 4, 2018I know…. I just can’t help but think I might regret the pink. I mean I think I’d love them but I suspect that – when I’m dressing – I’ll think… “Damn I should have gotten the grey shoes!”
Am thinking I could buy the grey and if they’re fabulously comfortable (or go on sale) then buy the pink.
Kate on thin ice (@kateonthinice)
February 5, 2018I imagine everyone questions what next on milestone birthdays like the 50th and I will find out for sure later this year. Looks like you celebrated in style and good to find your blog via #HighlightsofHappy
Debbish
February 5, 2018Thanks so much Kate. Thankfully I wasn’t as much in denial about turning 50 as I might have been had a not met a group of great bloggers who celebrate the whole mid-life thing!
Carol Cameleon
February 6, 2018Definitely the impractical pink ones! They’ll be practical for something… I’m one of those who’s vowing to read more this year and am already nearly finished my 2nd book of the year (beginning of Feb). Go me!! Thanks for sharing your thoughts with #HighlightsofHappy
Debbish
February 6, 2018Thanks Carol. I’ve ordered the grey shoes…. the pink just seemed too frivolous and I couldn’t do it! 🙂
Leanne Shea Langdown
February 7, 2018Your 50 photos have been amazing! So gorgeous. As for menopausal … I’m thinking I’m right there with you. Not loving my moods right now. Which is kind of going against the #teamlovinlife hashtag 😛
Debbish
February 7, 2018Yes, I’m far moodier and more melancholy than usual.