Some time ago I shared a clip from the Like A Girl campaign. It was basically reminding us that – ‘we’ (women, men, boys and girls) aren’t born with certain perceptions or ideas. We develop them over time thanks to our families, friends and society.
When asked to ‘run like a girl’ older women and girls exaggerate their style in a negative way. Younger girls, just run. Like a girl. In the post I share a quote from the clip where one young girl’s sounding puzzled when the ‘like a girl’ phrase is used. “It sounds like you’re trying to humiliate someone,” she said. She doesn’t get it. Thank god.
In that blog post I also said I was raised in a household where – sports-wise – it was never considered there was stuff I couldn’t do because ‘I was a girl’. But I suspect I was one of the lucky ones.
Blogger Yingyang Mother brought this clip to my attention on the weekend – created as part of the This Girl Can campaign by Sport England. I shared it on Facebook at the time and noticed other sites sharing the video as well. I was later surprised to see some comments from those who believed it to be patronising. Or unnecessary.
But me – well, I’m its target audience and I think it’s friggin’ amazing. It features women of all shapes and sizes and all abilities. It reminds us that whatever it is we do, it’s okay. Whether we’re playing competitive sport, at a Zumba class at a community hall, or paddling about a pool.
It’s kinda depressing these kinds of ads are required at all, but it’s a reminder many of us need.
We can do it because the only the only alternative is saying we can’t. And we really don’t want to do that.
What are your thoughts? Motivating? Empowering? Patronising?
PS. Apologies for the ‘Get Ur Freak On’ earworm as I’ve been hearing that song in my head all week. #loveit
* I think it’s akin to the {Q: How to get a bikini body? A: Get a bikini and put it on your body!} type adage!
I’m linking up with Trish from My Little Drummer Boys for Wordless Wednesday.
January 28, 2015
I think it’s good, and probably necessary as until the campaign, I regularly said things like ‘you run like a girl’ without even thinking about it…
January 28, 2015
Absolutely and I laugh at jokes on TV about ‘girlie-men’. (Mad As Hell on ABC TV!)
January 28, 2015
I don’t know if it was because I was from an all girl family but I never thought that being a girl was an impediment. Sure we’re not as physically strong as males but I’m pretty sure we’ve got it over them in spades when it comes to the mental side of things.
January 28, 2015
Same Char. I think I said in the original post – I’m happy to acknowledge that (broadly) men are mostly stronger and faster (ie. biology / physiology) but when I used to be fit and played stuff I was better than heaps of guys and definitely didn’t take it for granted that they would be able to do stuff I couldn’t!
January 28, 2015
I loved that video! What’s patronizing about it? I love seeing real girls of all shapes and sizes being active and enjoying themselves. It makes a nice change from seeing skeletal girls with perfect faces parading around looking starving!
January 28, 2015
I’m with you Min. It makes me smile and teary with pride in equal parts. (And it’s really motivating!) I don’t think it’s at all cliched or patronising. I wonder if people’s problem with it is the fact it had to be made at all – implying that some women / girls think they ‘can’t’. That part doesn’t worry me at all.
January 28, 2015
This video rocks the party alright, I watched it a few days ago. It’s a hard perception to change isn’t it but I’m trying hard with my kids! I’m about to get in the pool with my boy and do some exercise in it… at least it’s something right? x
January 28, 2015
Oh absolutely!
Deb
January 28, 2015
I just watched the video with the volume turned off (I am at work).. I loved it – for me… I am 50 years old with slight body issues and I need this video to remind me to just get out and do this stuff and not care what others think.. I too am from a family where there wasn’t any distinction from male / female roles – far from it… at our place, we say “Lady up” not man up…..
I am the one with the issue. I need to get over me… Great video.
January 28, 2015
Stephanie – you’ll have to watch it with the sound later cos it’s fabulous!
And yes I’m the same… and yet I didn’t ‘judge’ any one of those women in the clip I just thought they all looked great!
January 28, 2015
Its the smiles that I love…Even without the sound – it still made me feel good..
January 28, 2015
(And the dripping sweat and red faces!) 😉
January 28, 2015
This had me smiling like crazy Deb, because it’s SO REAL!!
Sorry for shouting, but this really is the kind of message I want to get through to my daughter.
Both John and I have been telling her since before she was born, that she can be/do anything she wants. It just takes guts and determination.
Lots of positive here xx
January 28, 2015
Yes Lisa, as I said earlier whenever I watch it I’m either bursting with enthusiasm to get out there and do something or almost in tears because it’s so fabulous. Heaps of women and girls just out there doin’ their thing!
January 29, 2015
Can you imagine the taunting my daughter received with four older brothers. She showed them by being selected in the regional basketball team and they didn’t. I must admit I’ve been told I throw like a girl many times. I love that caption with the swimmer. I’ll remember that when I get up tomorrow to hit the treadmill at 5:00am. I’m doing it BECAUSE I love my body.
January 29, 2015
My brother and I were basketballers as well Pinky! And great attitude re the treadmill! (Not too sure about the 5am thing though!)
February 1, 2015
So true. It really annoys me when people assume girls do a lesser job.
I am going for a long walk & run because I LOVE food and my body well – getting wider and wiser is supposed to be good for you.
February 1, 2015
Good on you Trish!
February 5, 2015
I am with you it is awesome! That is what real women exercising looks like! To me that is real *fitspiration*! I get really annoyed by all the pics of women with no curves, in their early 20sand perfect makeup advertising fitness wear. Doesn’t make sense!
February 5, 2015
When I used to exercise a lot I used to (relatively rarely) share a pic after a class and I always had a very red face and sweaty short hair. I used to do classes at lunch and shower and return to the office. People all knew I’d been to the gym for hours after I’d been but I didn’t mind cos I liked that I was working hard.
(It’s only the sweating when I’m not working out that I hate!!!)