* The title of this post is meant to be a play on The Emperor’s New Clothes but I realised in retrospect it may be a bit obscure. Or just not make sense. Whatevs.
I started a new job a couple of weeks ago. And despite declaring a number of times I wasn’t going to go back into a full-on type government job again, I have indeed done so.
I am however, working in regional Queensland so don’t have the public transport / busy commute to deal with. Nor do I have to worry quite as much about what I wear.
Well, maybe. I spent a couple of days in my first week in Brisbane. I’ve never been a particularly corporate kind of dresser. Any suit coats I owned were pretty funky. Mostly I wore black things that I hoped were a bit edgy and looked like I meant business. (In a not-very-serious edgy way).
Since my seachange I’ve adopted colour. I recall a former colleague visiting me a year or two into my time here. Her first words were, “You’re wearing pink!” She’d only ever seen me in black, with some white thrown in as well as the occasional grey.
My wardrobe now is pretty colourful and most of my outfits have been suitable for any work I’ve done here since. And I think they’ll be fine for my new work environment – here in regional Queensland (which will include travel to other regional centres).
But having to be back in head office in the city again meant I needed to look vaguely professional. And of course I wanted to make a good impression and reflect the responsibilities that come with my new role.
I figured I had enough clothes to cover me for two days in the city but bought some new shoes. With heels. Low heels but heels nevertheless. And while buying them I got a casual pair of summer sandals as I’d ditched my previous ones in West Australia earlier this year.
I was packing light for Brisbane so donned my flat sandals for the trip and packed my new heels which I’d been walking around the house in to ensure I was confident and did not fall over in the city streets.
What I didn’t count on were the blisters that I got from the shoes. I usually try to get shoes with as little leather / material as possible as I blister easily.
After hobbling to my hotel at the end of my first day in my heels I decided I’d wear my slightly-too-casual sandals on day two lest I aggravate the oncoming blisters further and render myself unable to walk.
And… unfortunately I only added to the pain. My sandals (on sale) are a smidge small (I blame European sizing and me always getting sucked into buying 41s as Australia size 10 instead of 42s!)
So, though there’s barely any leather on my sandals the bit between my big toe and second toe rubbed all day. To the extent they were bleeding when I got back home and the top of my foot was red and angry. (Not infected I hoped, just glowing in sympathy.)
Since arriving home I’ve donned my old velvet ballet flats everyday. They’re soft, look kinda cool and appropriate for small-town corporate wear.
However… I’m heading back to Brisbane this week and am again faced by the shoe dilemma. I’m thinking I might need to go shopping while I’m there.
I realise it’s a #firstworldproblem but balancing comfort, with dressiness and my preferred slightly offbeat style will be a challenge for summer shoe shopping. Any hints?
December 4, 2022
I see lace ups (comfy, cool, and easy to obtain) EVERYWHERE on women in corporate.NSW Secretary of Education wears them. I am loving the change to comfort over all the crap that went with “looks for women”
December 4, 2022
Yes, I’ve never been a heels wearer. I’d be wearing my Doc Martens if it was winter cos I think they look okay no matter what but summer is a bit more problematic for me given how easily I blister and time taken to wear in new shoes!
December 4, 2022
I wear sneakers everywhere so… no, no advice 🙂
December 10, 2022
I kinda did when I worked from home as well.
December 7, 2022
Congratulations Debbie on your new job. I rarely wear heels these days so when I do my balance is all over the shop! I remember the corporate days of wearing grey and black and now relish that I can wear colour all the time. #WWandP
December 10, 2022
Yes… I love colour now though do have a very bright dress that feels a bit too attention-seeking.
December 7, 2022
OMG you poor thing! SNEAKERS! I wear Frankie4 sneakers a lot and they are life savers. I also have a very nice pair of rose gold flat sandals (with slight elevation) that I bought from Footgear (can’t remember the brand name). I can’t handle heels anymore unless I’m walking only a short distance and then sitting – eg going to dinner. If lots of walking is required I can’t do heels. I find I need to invest more in shoes now I’m older as I need good support and comfort. BTW – congratulations on your new job! That is so exciting!
December 10, 2022
Yes, I’m happy to pay more for shoes (and clothes). I’ve always been one to go for quality over quantity. I tend to hold on to clothes (and shoes) for a long time rather than shop often.
December 7, 2022
Hi Deb – it might be a first world problem, but it’s a problem none the less. Have you thought about a low wedge sandal with soft lightweight toe straps and a good ankle strap. I’ve seen several of these type of sandals in the ads and if you got them in a size that fit you might find they work for the rest of summer. I’m a flat shoe kind of gal (being tall) a nice little pair of sandals – with the cushioned sole work well for me for my little reception job. Good luck – and the job is sounding like a great challenge and a good way to finish up well with full-time work.
December 10, 2022
I’ve actually just returned from the next trip and I wore my ballet flats into the office each day and put my heels on once I was there and that seemed to work well. (Though my ballet flats are on their last legs!)
December 7, 2022
Hi Deb, I ditched the heels of any height, a few years ago. Groovy white sneakers are in now, so I think they’d be perfect for office wear in Queensland. These days, I go for comfort. Do take care of your feet, they sound painful
December 10, 2022
Yes, you can get such nice sneakers now… I think they’ll be fine for my job in the region but am a bit more self-conscious about the city. Most people in the building I work in while there are quite dressed up. I was surprised to still see so many stilettos!!!
December 8, 2022
When I worked I had to wear ‘sensible shoes’ that I could run in, given I worked in a prison but also professional/corporate looking! I had quite a few pairs that suited the purpose but now don’t need anywhere as many shoes. I feel for you having to find suitable ones, that are also comfy and have some personality!
December 10, 2022
I know… I think if I was contented to have boring shoes it’s be fine. But maybe that’s what I need.
December 8, 2022
Still say sneakers for the win…and get colour if you dont want white….and I wear teensy inner socks to avoid any skin irritation. Athletes Foot were great for me. Thank you for sharing your post for Wednesday’s Words and Pics. It is great to have you be a part of this blogging community & there are two more Wednesdays before a little break until Wed 4 January 2023. See you next week too I hope. Denyse.
December 10, 2022
I’m very late getting to read everyone’s posts given I’ve been away and didn’t take my own laptop or ipad, but looking forward to catching up this weekend.