I’m off to Sydney today. I don’t travel much anymore but the thing I’m most nervous about (in addition to the airplane seatbelt fitting comfortably around my belly) is my ability to sleep (at all) with a strange pillow.
For the last year or so, whenever I’ve travelled I’ve taken my own pillow. Which is fine when you are visiting family or friends. But, lugging an old thin pillow to a posh hotel is… well… just a bit naff.
I don’t quite know when I became this anal pillow-particular person. I was certainly more flexible about pillow height and softness for most of my childhood, 20s and 30s. It’s really only been in recent years that I’ve struggled with strange pillows. In fact, I’ve often found myself sleeping in hotels with my head on a folded towel if the pillows on offer are overstuffed or too high.
I like a thin soft pillow you see. And even then it’s hard to find EXACTLY what I want need. I have two comfortable pillows – one just a tad higher / thicker than the other. Both are old and stained and need to be retired to the farm to join my first childhood dog, but as I’m yet to find a replacement I’m stuck with them. I’ve visited places with pillow ‘menus’ and tried buying what I need (for someone who sleeps on their stomach or half-sprawled on their side) but when I get them home I find they’re too high.
I’m about to spend two nights (ie. two sleeps) in Sydney for a book bloggers’ forum. But I”m travelling on the cheap. I bought the cheapest airfares possible – though did cough-up $27.50+GST to sit in an exit row both ways for extra leg room – so I’m travelling light, with only my satchel (handbag) and a tiny backpack. No space for a pillow.
I’ll put in a request once I arrive at my hotel for a flat thin soft pillow… but if past experience is anything to go by, what I’ll get will be nothing like my old faithful faves. I’m just hoping I’m either: 1. tired enough to sleep anyway; or 2. inebriated enough to sleep anyway. 🙂
Just between us though, I have to confess that what worries me the most about this is when the hell did I become someone who was so anal about their pillows? It feels like an old-person thing. Next thing you know I’ll be saying I can’t travel cos I can’t sleep in any bed other than my own. Or similar?!* Gah!
Are you pillow-particular?
What sort of pillow do you prefer?
I’m joining the LaughLink gang again today (though yet to work out how to link properly!).
* PS. Not gonna happen cos I seriously need a new mattress!
May 19, 2014
Oh pillows! I rarely sleep well anyway, so don’t get too hung up on them, but hubby…man he goes on about pillows at every hotel we ever stay in. This one had a pillow menu (that I ordered from), but due to a check in stuff up didn’t get until day 2…& I reckon I heard about it until then too! Have a great time in Sydney- just wish I was around to catch up with you.
May 19, 2014
Oh yes it would be nice to meet in person! Although… I might be tired and cranky if I have crappy pillows and sleep badly! 😉
May 19, 2014
I love a firm pillow and I love when a hotel has a pillow menu but most times they don’t offer what I want. The great thing about travelling with kids is you can steal their pillows and swap them with the ones on the main bed if they aren’t to my liking. Have a great time in Sydney and hope you get good sleep. 🙂
May 19, 2014
Thanks Bec, I’m sure it will be fine. And… there’s always the folded bath towel option! 😉
May 19, 2014
I never take my pillow with me but I get what you mean. I too like the most flat pillow I can find and then I fold it in half to support my neck. I get terrible neck pain with big fluffy pillows.
But I think we’re in the minority – there are huge pillows everywhere!
May 19, 2014
I know… I think oversized luxe type pillows are the ‘thing’ but I don’t get how people can sleep on them!
May 19, 2014
I’m OK on the pillow front. Bed has to be nice and firm though. Not soft. Soft beds suck x
May 19, 2014
Hmmmm… I’m a bit the opposite. I recently was at my mother’s and realised how much I liked her soft mattress. Mine’s about 12yrs old and as soon as I can afford it I need to replace it!
May 19, 2014
I take a pillow when I can to hotels, as like you I’m very particular, preferring a soft, thin pillow when most hotel pillows are BIG. I’ve been known to toss hotel pillows onto the floor in the middle of the night in sheer, sleepless frustration…no pillow is preferable to boofy ones! 🙂
May 19, 2014
I’m EXACTLY the same!
May 19, 2014
My wife, God bless her pillow fetish ways has six or seven on the go at anyone time. Why? I have no idea. I figure that if one person has that many pillows it’s best not to ask why
May 19, 2014
Oh yes. I actually alternate my two. The ‘higher’ of the two (which is very low) is the pillow I start the night with… but when I wake – before dawn or around then I switch to the thinner one.
Makes sense to me! 🙂
May 19, 2014
I’m also a thin pillow person. I find most hotels crink my neck up too high. Thanks for linking up…and it did work, yay!
May 19, 2014
Yes… I’m in a hotel now and the pillows are too high. Of course I’ve done nothing about asking for lower ones. Maybe tomorrow…
May 19, 2014
SAME SAME – I like a VERY slim pillow and I’ve never found a nice one at any hotel/resort I’ve stayed in – it’s like we’re all expected to like sleeping almost upright! Great post! Have a ball 🙂
May 19, 2014
Thanks Emily and I will!!!
May 20, 2014
Ahhh pillows! I sleep with 5 and use them all. When I go and stay at my boyfriends, I get one, it drives me mad! I don’t know when I became this crazy pillow lady, but I find it hard to sleep without 3. One (large soft) under my head, one that I kind of choke hold/hug, and one that I use between my knees if I sleep on my side due to a bad back. 😛
May 20, 2014
Oh my god! Five?!? Though I do like a second pillow to cuddle! 😉
May 20, 2014
It’s not just you – sleep comfort is paramount as I get older! That’s a pity even the pillow menu can’t help you though :/
May 20, 2014
No pillow menu at the hotel I’m staying at. I did request a flatter and softer pillow for tonight though!