November 2018 check-in

Thursday, November 22, 2018 Permalink

I’ll be honest and admit my mood has been yo-yoing around quite a bit lately. I’m trying to be upbeat… as I said last week, I know I’ve got nothing to moan about… I mean, sure I’m unemployed, single, childless, 50 and need to improve my diet and exercise regimes, but other than that… life is going swimmingly. 😉

Anyhoo, while I continue to ponder on the joys of my existence I thought I’d skip the navel-gazing post this week and instead share with you the, ummm… joys of my existence.

What I’m watching

I’ve been in a non-reading mood for a while. Well, I’m constantly behind in my book reviews and not allowed to read new books until I’ve caught up so, obviously I’ve replaced my reading habit with a just-as-healthy Netflix habit.

I’ve recently watched: Lucifer, the show about the sexy crime-solving devil (season 3 – though had to rewatch s2 to remind myself how it’d ended); Ozark season 2 (though had to watch s1 to remind myself of the wily dealings of Jason Bateman and Laura Linney’s money-laundering business).

I watched season 2 of The Sinner – though had no reason to rewatch s1 as it’s a bit like a standalone series – new twisty mystery etc.

 

And though I planned to watch some chirpy (naff) Christmas movies I inexplicably started watching Dr Who (circa 2005) the other night.

I’ve not watched Dr Who since Tom Baker and his colourful scarf disappeared from our screens several decades ago. And even then I probably only watched it because I grew up in regional Queensland and we only had two TV channels (one of which only broadcast for part of the day)… however I tuned into the first episode of the current season of Dr Who as I like Jodie Whittaker (the new / latest Doctor) and though I’m not an addict I’m enjoying it enough to tune in week after week and love the humour in the show.

What I’m writing

I started working on something new for NaNoWriMo (national novel writing month) but was worried my idea wouldn’t actually result in a 80,000 word novel (so then why bother, right?!). I don’t like short stories myself but I saw this quote recently about novellas and so am thinking I’ll just write the story and see where it takes me – without worrying how I’ll pad it out.

How I’m making an effort

Despite the opening paragraphs (which were meant to be tongue-in-cheek obvs) I’m making an effort to do the stuff I said (I would) since finishing my recent work contract and returning from my holiday.

I’m making an effort to dine out more… and just yesterday I went out for lunch – having a champagne while doing so and I caught up with relatives for dinner on the weekend. I’m making some small changes around my house – rearranging indoor plants; potting my new lemon tree on my deck (and it’s survived an entire week, so yay!) and I’m not stressing too much about work and bills, while also telling myself that I need to see this time as an opportunity. I mean, perhaps I’ll get desperate enough I’ll finally gather the bravado I need to pitch some articles to paying websites or magazines?!

Any Netflix or TV suggestions? Do you read short stories or novellas? Do you think they can work? 

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17 Comments
  • Lilian Magill
    November 22, 2018

    Love you blog posts.

    • Debbish
      November 22, 2018

      Oh thank you, that’s lovely. I wasn’t really sure what I wanted to talk about this week (including the fact that I told a blatant lie to a 7yr old). I had a lot of ideas but none fully formed.

  • Natalie
    November 22, 2018

    Yay you for making an effort doing different things. You’re right about taking this time as an opportunity. Have a great week!

    • Debbish
      November 22, 2018

      Thanks Natalie. Of course once I crawl out of my comfort zone I’m fine, but I tend to be lazy about doing so!

  • Jo
    November 22, 2018

    I definitely think Novellas can work – look at Nick Earls… Re Netflix? I’m watching Bodyguard at the moment…

    • Debbish
      November 22, 2018

      I keep seeing it advertised and it’s on my list… keen to hear what you think.

      • Jo
        November 22, 2018

        I really enjoyed them…

  • Sydney Shop Girl
    November 22, 2018

    Deb, I really love how you are completely honest and open and you in your posts.

    Thank you

    SSG xxx

    • Debbish
      November 22, 2018

      Oh I’m ridiculously honest most of the time. I feel bad when I’m not so… which is ridiculous a lot of the time as it means I overshare too much. I was having a conversation the other day about my savings and how long they might last before I’m destitute / have to visit Centrelink and happily explained how much I had saved and what I thought I’d spend. Later I was like, “WTF Deborah? Why do you compelled to be SO HONEST?”

  • leannelc
    November 22, 2018

    I always enjoy hearing what you’ve been getting up to Deb. If being single is a problem you could always see if those Russian bride dating sites have a Russian groom section 😀 You know the saying “ohhhh those Russians!!”
    I’m glad you’re enjoying the new Dr Who – we watched it for three or four episodes and gave up – we just don’t really like the characters (or her continual use of her sonic screwdriver for everything) and the frenetic feel of it. I personally want David Tennant back – I loved him and his version of the Doctor.

    • Debbish
      November 22, 2018

      Ha, a few months ago I signed up to a couple of online dating sites and that was depressing enough. I lasted a month or two on there I think!

      I have noticed this Dr Who uses her sonic screwdriver for everything. I can’t remember the early Dr Whos having one?! The one I’ve started watching – I’m assuming was the return to our screens – has Christopher Eccleston in it. I’m not sure I’m a huge fan but Billie Piper is kinda fun.

  • Sanch @ Sanch Writes
    November 22, 2018

    I hope you know it’s okay to moan about stuff. Life can seem pretty shit at times and it sounds like you’re going through a tough time even if you are trying to do stuff. Good on you for NaNoWriMo this year. I need to watch The Sinner when I get back home. Love The Good Place. Also, do reach out via FB/Insta messages if you feel like a chat.

    • Debbish
      November 22, 2018

      Oh thanks Sanch, I might well do that. I hope you’re enjoying your holiday!!! I’m not sure about The Good Place but I like Kristen Bell and Ted Danson!

  • Kathy Marris
    November 22, 2018

    Sounds like you’ve been keeping yourself busy Deb. We were watching ‘Bloodline’ on Netflix, but it unfortunately we lost internet at our rental house. Despite our best efforts we haven’t been able to get the internet working again. It’s such a pain! I might have to start reading again as there is nothing on TV to watch.

    • Debbish
      November 23, 2018

      I started watching Bloodline a year or two ago but only got part-way through the first season. It didn’t grab me but I had planned to go back to it at some point as I’d heard good things about it!

      And yes, I rarely watch ‘live’ TV. I used to record things to watch them later but don’t even really do that nowadays.

  • Jodie
    November 23, 2018

    I’m glad you’re trying to do those things, Deb. Rearranging the house is something we just did, and sometimes it’s a good thing!
    We’ve been looking for some recommendations on what to watch, but those shows look a little scary???
    XOXO
    Jodie
    http://www.jtouchofstyle.com

    • Debbish
      November 23, 2018

      Ah yes, they’re all thriller type shows. I know a lot of people like Grace & Frankie (Jane Fonda and Lily Tomlin) and The Crown (about the British Royal Family). I was enjoying The Good Doctor, but haven’t seen any of this latest season so need to catch up on that.

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