Mother’s Day is a mixed bag for many. There are those who’ve lost their mothers and those who (like me) wanted to be a mother, but (for many reasons) weren’t able to have children.
I’ve mostly lived away from my mother since heading to University 30 years ago. I made it home when I could, but I’m fairly sure my mum’s spent far more Mother’s Days without children around, than with.
And that’s what I’m telling myself this year because… given my lack of job (money) and inability to make anything (not-crafty… in the bad way); I’m bestowing upon my mother… ME!
Okay, well she already received that special gift (!!!) 47 years ago, so more specifically I’m gifting her… my presence time.
Now I know you might be suspicious. After all, you’ve seen the number of times I’ve moaned on social media lamenting the fact I can’t afford holidays but need to escape my apartment. Or just… you know… want some company. So you may think I’m getting as much out of this time-bestowing-arrangement as she is. But really… she gets to cook for me, share her broadband time AND wash my ‘clothes I leave at mum’s’ after I depart.
What more could she want?!
In all honesty, I love my mum for much more than her roasts. Cos she makes a mean braised steak and fried curry as well. ๐
I’m sure mothers around the world would agreeโthey don’t need fancy presents or foot spas. Some appreciation and love probably goes a long way.
Are you a fan of the home-made card, or would a facial or handbag make your day?ย
May 9, 2015
Wishing you & your Mum a lovely day…
May 9, 2015
Thanks Jo!
May 9, 2015
Your Mum has the sweetest kindest face Deb. To be honest that’s all I want from my kids. Their time.
May 9, 2015
But you’re going to get pizza Michelle!
And my mum said thanks!
May 9, 2015
I bet giving your mum yourself for Mother’s Day is priceless, and it’s the one thing that money can’t buy! Hope you have a beautiful day together (and enjoy the roast!) x
May 9, 2015
Thanks so much. I’m sure we will.
May 9, 2015
You’re absolutely giving your Mum the best gift she could wish for, Deb. Have a beautiful time together x
May 9, 2015
Thanks Lisa. xxx
May 9, 2015
Agree. Your time together will be a gift to
you both…to be remembered forever. I’m away from my 4 beautiful children this mother’s day for the first time. When they were little I dreamed for a sleep in on mother’s day. All too soon I now can and I’m sad.
May 9, 2015
Ah yes… That old ‘be careful what we wish for’ dilemma. Hopefully you’ll be back with them soon!
Deb
May 10, 2015
I think your company is exactly what she will enjoy! My sister always says she wants a break from her kids for mothers day haha, but I love just spending the day with mine.
May 10, 2015
I bet she’d find she missed them if she did get that break – Marie commented on something similar below!
May 10, 2015
I think this is a fabulous idea and I think most mothers would love just time with their kids. ๐
May 10, 2015
My mum does seem happy enough with my company!!! ๐
May 11, 2015
You’re right in what Mums want. Just time with our off-spring. And I got that so I was happy yesterday. The great big tub of peanut M&Ms was just the icing on the cake.
May 11, 2015
My mum’s trying to be healthy so she specifically said no chocolates, or I would have bought her some!
May 11, 2015
Your mum looks like a sweetie, would you mind sharing her lol. I know the only thing I wish for from my kids on Mother’s Day or any day for that matter is time with them. no money or all the money in the world, spending time with them is the best gift. Not that I’d knock back a massage but my kids are ‘poorbies’ haha
May 11, 2015
Fortunately I haven’t always been poor but my mum knows I am at the moment and so I know she doesn’t mind that I didn’t get her anything…. Hope you had a nice day!
May 14, 2015
I’d take a handmade card from my kids for Mother’s Day! I’m sure your mom is more than thrilled to have you there! Enjoy the time with her. She looks so sweet. ๐
May 14, 2015
She is indeed sweet Mary and thanks for dropping by!
Deb