Getting out of bed in the morning

Saturday, April 30, 2016 Permalink

I’ve talked here often of my insomnia. But no matter how tired I’ve been I can usually drag myself out of bed in the morning because the black fizzy goodness that is Vanilla Diet Coke awaited me on the other side of slumber.

I’m not a tea or coffee drinker (and dislike hot drinks in general) so diet coke in various forms has been my go-to morning drink for decades.

I gave it up for about 3mths back in 2011, and have attempted to do so again and again since.

I know all of the reasons I should do so. I know there are other options…. so this post isn’t about my addiction to the now-impossible-to-find Vanilla Diet Coke.

It’s about what gets us out of bed in the morning.

I know most of you will say it’s your kids. Up at sparrow fart and wanting to be entertained. Or fighting with siblings. For others it might be the need to head to work at some ungodly hour. Or (worse still) up for early morning exercise.

I’m not a morning person though work better in the morning (and late arvo incidentally) so getting out of bed in the morning has never been something I’ve done willingly. It’s usually been work, chores or other commitments that have driven me from the comfort of my morning bed*

getting out of bed in the morning

However… like others and their morning coffee I’ve traditionally had my icy cold VDC to reward me for the gesture. Even when I’ve felt at my worst, I’ve managed to crawl out of bed knowing that shot of fizzy caffeine was awaiting me.

And I know I’m kinda being facetious, but seriously…. it was enough to get me out of bed when I had nowhere else I needed to be and nothing else that (urgently) needed doing. It was enough to get me up and going with my day when the alternative felt far better.

Until now. As I gave up VDC – out of necessity not desire – 10 days ago. It’s become increasingly hard to buy so I figured the time was right and my stomach, teeth and wallet would thank me.

I felt pretty ordinary last weekend – timed perfectly to coincide with tidying my place to prepare for it to go on the market. Yes… #WTF was I thinking? But now I’m kinda okay. Kinda.

However… my biggest struggle is the ‘getting out of bed in the morning’ thing and the fact that I have nothing awaiting me. Breakfast is never exciting enough. Neither is work, chores nor much else it seems. And that makes me kinda sad.

Other than the obvious – kids, animals, the need to go to work and pay bills or attend appointments – what gets you out of bed in the mornings? 

* Interestingly my ‘nighttime bed’ seems to be a different animal to my morning bed. In my nighttime bed I’m often unable to get comfortable.

I’m making an attempt to get my blogging mojo back by posting EVERY day in April. #holdme           
13 Comments
  • Michelle Weaver (@pinkypoinker)
    April 30, 2016

    Coffee. You should start drinking it. Have it with lots of milk and sugar. That’ll get your heart started.

    • Debbish
      May 1, 2016

      Blergh! I actually like coffee flavoured things though. And those Kopico lollies!

  • Kathryn
    April 30, 2016

    I thought when I retired it would be hard to get out of bed in the morning but so far it hasn’t been so. Mainly I think because I took up new interests. Housework chores, garden etc certainly doesn’t get me fizzing! But hot tea and then coffee an hour later is most necessary. When I was teaching the world would have fallen in if I couldn’t have my 8:30am coffee! Ah, caffeine.

    • Debbish
      May 1, 2016

      Yes, my habit Kathryn was to get out of bed and fill up my glass (with VDC) and sit down at my desk. I’d then work / write for a while – usually realising mid morning that I hadn’t had breakfast.

      Argh I miss that!

  • Newcastle Stafford
    April 30, 2016

    Are we long lost twins? Seriously this post is me (without the “kicked it for 10 days” part). Plain DC for me 2 x 600ml bottles a day — never ever had cup of tea or coffee etc etc. I’ve given up a number of times but always get hooked back in. WOuldn’t mind banking the $6 a day I spend on it though and ultimately buying it also can lead to junk food. Did you go cold turkey? I’m impressed and maybe a little inspired but as I write this at 10pm I already feel like “waaah” about that first thing in the morning blast not being available!

    • Debbish
      May 1, 2016

      I know… I struggled again today to get out of bed and I’m sure I can’t still be detoxing. I expect it’s psychological – something drawing me out of bed. I’ve contemplated having some normal diet coke but I suspect I’ll get addicted to that. (Which won’t help my teeth etc…)

      • Newcastle Stafford
        May 1, 2016

        I think one of the hard things for me is that when I have given it up in the past I haven’t actually noticed any health benefits, the only thing I felt was that i missed DC!

        Tooth enamel is intact, DC didn’t make me crave sugar or eat more (other than the sneaky packet of Cheezels i buy at the servo when I pick one up) BUT BUT BUT spending $42 a week on coloured carbonated water is getting harder to justify in these jittery economic times! Plus although I don’t think artificial sweeteners are harmful as such they also don’t bring anything good to the table so should be an easy diet line item to eliminate if the focus is on weight, health and transformation. Emphasis on SHOULD be.

        • Debbish
          May 1, 2016

          I actually was so desperate today I forced my mother to go with me to a local shop to get some normal diet coke. (I was still in my PJs so I drove and she had to get out of the car!) Bizarrely they only had coke zero so I’ve had to suck some of that down, but don’t like it much.

          I’m sure I’m over the caffeine / other stuff detox but have been really struggling with a heavy head and sinus-like symptoms. As you said – it means I’m minimally motivated to continue given that I’m not feeling great!

  • laurelrainsnow
    May 2, 2016

    I do love my morning coffee…but what gets me up and moving is knowing I can go to my computer, log on, and start blogging! In my PJs, since I’m retired. It’s that last part that really does it for me.

    The whole getting-dressed and made up is so old…and I love lounging around all morning before doing that. Sometimes, for some reason or other, I have to get up and dressed right away. And I’ll be you can hear me groan where you are…LOL.

    I agree about nighttime bed….I can’t get comfortable for a while, so I read or watch TV until I’m too exhausted to do anything else…then I might sleep.

    Thanks for sharing…

    • laurelrainsnow
      May 2, 2016

      Oops, meant to say “I’ll bet you can hear me”

    • Debbish
      May 2, 2016

      I did some contract stuff from home for the last few years and now only work part-time Laurel so can very much relate to your morning routine. I don’t change out of my PJs unless I have to.

      Usually it’s lunch time before I realise I haven’t had breakfast!

  • Trish @ Between My Lines
    May 2, 2016

    The only thing that gets me out of bed Monday to Friday is the fact I have to clock in at work! On Saturday and Sunday, I make a special cooked brekkie (as opposed to my porridge at my desk on weekdays) and I just love getting up and relaxing with that and a book. And if I lie in, my cat howls the house down till I get up and leave her out. So that gets me up too 😀

    • Debbish
      May 3, 2016

      Ah yes… good old work… I’m sleeping badly at the moment and so when my alarm goes off for work I wish I’d played the lottery so I could retire!

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