England holiday planning – take two

Sunday, June 25, 2023 Permalink

Five weeks ago I wrote a post about the fact that my holiday to England was only eight weeks away and I was yet to book anything other than my airfares and the tickets to Theakston Crime Writing Festival – which provided the impetus for me to travel.

Almost every weekend since I’ve commented on my need to organise myself – maps and TripAdvisor tabs open on my laptop. Two weeks ago a friend even held an intervention of sorts – well, Facetimed me to give me suggestions and (ahem) encourage me to book. Something. Anything. Supposedly my accommodation in York which is where I’m heading after the writing festival.

photograph of robin hood bay

Last weekend I AGAIN sat at my computer, with my holiday a mere four weeks away and still no accommodation booked. However… I finally bit the proverbial bullet and wantonly booked all of it. Yes, all of it.

I was conscious my anxiety (procrastination) was a combination of factors but is certainly a reminder that I’m a freakin’ middle aged woman. You see, I was prevaricating as I was trying to work out whether to stay in hotels or apartments. In reality I have no desire to stay in an apartment or house and self-cater. I do that every day of my life. I’ll be eating out and being financially frivolous. Nope. The issue for me is access to a washing machine. I mean, there’s no way I can travel in England for almost three weeks without doing laundry and I do not want to have to find a laundromat and sit for hours to do my washing. And though I’ve had to wash underwear in bathroom sinks before… it’s not fun.

So, my plan was to stagger my stays between hotel rooms and places with washing machines. So, my accommodation searches are being refined by ‘bathtubs’ and ‘washing machines’ along with normal stuff like ‘access to public transport’. And I’ve finally done it… though sadly only staying in one place with a washing machine. #oops

Rather than moving every couple of days, I’ve decided to stay in fewer locations for longer periods and explore areas from a base. So, after the writing festival I’m staying in York and then Moreton in Marsh in the Cotswolds and finally London (near Victoria Station).

My Cotswolds stay is the longest at 5 nights. I’m kicking it off with a day-long tour that I don’t need to plan, and following that I’ll catch buses or trains to Bath, Oxford, Stratford Upon Avon or return to places I’ve liked. *counts days on fingers and runs out of time*

I’m not usually a fan of ‘tours’ or sightseeing but doing a couple so I’m forced to see things I ‘should’ see (over the 18 days) and spend the rest of my time just soaking up a place-that’s-different.

Any other pointers? (Or others who hate touristing?)

Image: A vista I’m hoping to see on a day tour from York – by Michael Cummins on Unsplash

16 Comments
  • Kate W
    June 25, 2023

    Well, at least when you’re staying in places for a few nights, the underwear that you wash in the bathroom sink has time to dry 😉

  • Jennifer Jones
    June 29, 2023

    Deb I love the process of organising my travel plans, so sorry I can’t resonate with your hesitance. But I’m pleased to hear that you finally made your plans. Staying near Victoria Station in London is a great idea. I also like the idea of a few bus trips as you will have limited time. They do force you to see more than you usually would do, in one day. Then there’s the crime writing to look forward to. How exciting!

    • Debbish
      June 30, 2023

      Thanks Jennifer. I’m not really excited yet but getting there I think.

  • leannelc
    June 29, 2023

    Hi Deb – glad you finally bit the bullet and made some decisions. I find travel planning really stressful and it really doesn’t bring me a lot of joy. I love the “being there” but not the “getting there” or the “getting back”. You’re going to have a great time and I’m sure you’ll see some gorgeous places while you’re touring around.

    • Debbish
      June 30, 2023

      I can so relate Leanne as I’m exactly the same. I’d just prefer someone else organise it for me – but give me the options and choices. I went to a travel agent (someone a friend knows) when going to Italy and assumed she’d give me pointers but she just got an itinerary from some Italian company with chain hotels and sent it onto me. It wasn’t at all what I was expecting.

  • Sammie @ The Annoyed Thyroid
    June 30, 2023

    Oh how exciting – it’s really happening! You’re going to be better UK travelled than me. I have been to York though, it’s so lovely – you’re in for a treat!

    • Debbish
      June 30, 2023

      It’s always the way isn’t it? I made sure I visited Uluru twenty-ish years ago as I’d been living overseas for a bit and most visitors to Australia had seen more of the country (certainly the red centre) than I had.

  • Lydia C. Lee
    June 30, 2023

    OMG> This is the most exciting bit! Get on it! Furnace have some England dates http://www.furnapalooza.com/tour-dates. They’re so fun. I’m not sure if this is your sort of thing but she did this show at Ed Fest last year and is now touring it. I’m dying to see it. She’s a very fabulous folk protest singer but this is a spoken word show. https://www.instagram.com/p/Cr0U4r1sIZa/. Museum Mumm on Insta has a lot of good ideas (her focus is kids but I’d do the stuff without kids….but maybe I’m a big kid….??) http://museummum.com/

    • Debbish
      June 30, 2023

      Not a big music fan I’m afraid… and it doesn’t look like the dates match. Will check out the London suggestions with Museummum though.

  • Christie Hawkes
    July 1, 2023

    Good for you, Deb, for biting the bullet and getting the planning done. I hope you have a wonderful holiday.

  • Denyse Whelan Hosts A Weekly Blog Link Up on Wednesdays.
    July 1, 2023

    Beating that procrastination thing is a BIG thing to do. I have that from time to time. Annoys me big time. I am so glad you are ‘getting very ready’ for this…even though I know from your SM updates there’s a lot happening beforehand. I just want you to ENJOY yourself…please!! Goodness me, I am late in my reply to your post for Wednesday’s Words and Pics. Thank you so much for being part of the community! Denyse.

    • Debbish
      July 2, 2023

      I’m very haphazard in my posting of late Denyse and haven’t written many non-bookish posts. I’m currently trying to decide whether to take my laptop overseas or make do with my iPad and a keyboard.The latter isn’t ideal and I struggle with the tiny keyboard I have and I worry I might want to do some writing (blogging) while away.

  • Debbie
    July 2, 2023

    As I’m still in the UK at the moment, going home next week after almost 8 weeks I can understand your hesitancy but it has to be done! I’m glad you’ve booked a few things and time will pass very quickly for you! I hope you enjoy it all and things work out for you the way you want them to. Any questions for someone who is currently over here from Aus, just shoot me a message 🙂

    • Debbish
      July 2, 2023

      Thank you!!! I joined a UK Travel Planning FB group a friend suggested but at my first question (re booking train seats and the BritRail pass) I had snarky responses telling me to read earlier posts on the issue. (I had found a couple but they hadn’t answered my question…) Anyhoo… I will definitely have some questions when I get myself into that headspace. I’m only just starting to think of practicalities. Like, what will I use for cabin luggage? The fact my current ‘handbag/purse’ isn’t suitable and I need to buy something small and easily slung across my body. Or do I go for something larger that I can put an umbrella or raincoat in? And then the fact I don’t have a raincoat and only have an old umbrella….

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