Weekly check-in

Sunday, April 24, 2016 Permalink

We’re in the midst of a long weekend here in Australia. Although –  as I don’t usually work on Mondays or Fridays – it’s kinda normal for me, but a treat for others.

I however… am in the midst of some horrible horrible chores. AND in a decaffeinated state as I’ve given up my beloved Vanilla Diet Coke. But more on that later. Firstly to my reading and reviewing.

What I read

I kicked off the week with The One in a Million Boy by Monica Wood – a delightful read and one I’ve reviewed already.

I moved onto Shtum by Jem Lester – which I’ll be reviewing in the next day or two – about a profoundly autistic young boy and the impact that has on his family.

shtum

And finally I read Caroline Overington’s The One Who Got Away… which I really enjoyed – along with the caramello koalas consumed in the bath at the same time.

koalas

What I wrote

I’m hanging in there with my post-every-day challenge for April. But only just.

I reviewed a couple of books:

Under Italian Skies by Nicky Pellegrino – a lovely story of friendship, risk-taking and the pursuit of happiness
The One in a Million Boy by Monica Wood – achingly poignant in parts and about finding meaning and salvation in unexpected places.

And then there was:

My biggest roadblock – in which I wrote about my excess weight *sigh*
Work tripping – in which I shared some pics of my recent work roadtrips
Martyrdom – my ponderings on whether creativity and change requires sacrifice and torture (again inspired by Liz Gilbert and Brene Brown)
Buyer’s remorse – comparing house selling to hairdressing appointments. Kinda.

What I did

Well… I put my place on the market. It’s official but not really ‘public’ yet. I signed the paperwork and the ‘For Sale’ sign is up, but I’m spending this weekend cleaning and decluttering in preparation for photographs a friend will be taking at dawn (yes dawn!!!!) on Tuesday. After that it’ll go online and advertising will commence.

The sign's up!

Yesterday I moved a desk, coffee table and jogging trampoline into storage and my mother’s taken some stuff to her place. I’ve packed away things which usually live on benchtops and today (argh)… today I will be vacuuming, sweeping and mopping. Leaving only the mirrors and bathrooms until tomorrow. (And maybe the verandah cos it’s filthy and I’m dreading it the most!)

What I plan to do

The next couple of days will be pretty frantic with selling-prep stuff. But I’m trying to keep my evenings as normal as possible – which is how I manage my stress. (Well, that and dinners of gluten-free Twisties and Caramello Koalas). So tonight I’m off to dinner with a couple of friends and really looking forward to it.

I only had three new book arrivals last week but still working out what’s next nonetheless. The end of April has seemed so far away I’ve deferred books published then. Only now to realise IT IS THE BLOODY END OF APRIL. I’ve no idea how that happened, so…. I need to rethink my reading priorities a little!

And finally – the winner of my Surfing the Menu cookbook competition – which closed yesterday was Joanne Tracey! If it hadn’t been a random draw I swear I would surely have chosen a winner based on their appreciation of the cuties on the cover!!!!

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What’s on your agenda this week? 

Linking up with Kimberly from The Caffeinated Book Reviewer for the Sunday Post and Kathryn from Book Date for ‘It’s Monday!’
And I’m linking up with Leanne from Deep Fried Fruit for the Lovin’ Life Linky.

54 Comments
  • Leanne @ Deep Fried Fruit
    April 24, 2016

    Wow, Big things happening. BIG THINGS! I can’t wait to read about the new chapters in your life Deb.
    Thanks for joining the Lovin’ Life Linky again this week.

  • charliegirlteachergirl
    April 24, 2016

    I am so proud that you are choosing to embrace a new uncertainty. While I’m sorry you are giving up such amazing views because I am living vicariously through your pictures, I am glad that you are going to find a place you love and enjoy just being there. I hope you don’t overdo yourself on the cleaning!

    • Debbish
      April 24, 2016

      Well I’m now officially 1hr 45mins behind my schedule for today… and just realised my plan to buy flowers for the photo shoot tomorrow may be thwarted because it’s a public holiday so I’ll have to do that today too. All managing to get myself mightily stressed. Argh!!!!

  • Michelle Weaver (@pinkypoinker)
    April 24, 2016

    Make sure you carefully label all your packing boxes! Taking the photos at dawn is a brilliant idea! Good luck with that verandah. I feel your pain.

    • Debbish
      April 24, 2016

      Thanks Michelle. Packing will be a way off – thankfully. I’m sure it will be as nightmarish as usual given that I’m finding the cleaning and cleansing stressful!

  • Greg
    April 24, 2016

    Ack! No caffeine? Brave soul. 🙂 Well you decided to list it? Good luck and I hope it all goes well. Sounds like you’re busy busy busy- I hope you find time to have some fun too. 🙂 Enjoy your long weekend… and nice road trip pics!

    • Debbish
      April 24, 2016

      Thanks Greg and yes… this (minimum of 600ml/day) vanilla diet coke drinker has AGAIN given up. Only because it’s become almost impossible to find. I did think about trying to get back onto normal diet coke as I’m pretty sure I could do that (I got addicted to vanilla diet coke after lemon diet coke when off the market)!

  • Lexxie @ (un)Conventional Bookviews
    April 24, 2016

    I can’t function without caffeine, Deb, so I bow to do you for your immense courage! I hope you’ll be able to find an even nice place to live, Deb, one where the other owners aren’t so passive-aggressive. Good luck with the flowers!
    I am so looking forward to reading the One in a Million Boy, too, Deb, that book has been on my radar for a long time.
    Have a wonderful week ahead and happy reading and de-cluttering and cleaning 🙂

    • Debbish
      April 24, 2016

      Oh the cleaning is killing me Lexxie. And no diet coke…. Argh!

      Incidentally I noticed one of those ‘On This Day’ things on Facebook from 2011 and my status update said I’d gone off Diet Coke 9 days earlier and was finally not missing it any more.

      I gave up for months that time. More recently it’s been shorter as I’ve gotten sick and so relied on the caffeine to help me feel better.

  • Trish @ Between My Lines
    April 24, 2016

    Hope your place sells quickly and hassle free. If such a thing exists! Moving is such a pain in the ass but hopefully you are off to somewhere even better.
    I keep trying (and failing) to give up Diet Coke. It was easier to cut back on coffee but the cold fizzy stuff, not so much! I’m down to about 5 cans a week which I know isn’t great but it’s better than it was!
    And I’m glad you loved One in a Million Boy, it makes me eager to read my copy now.

    • Debbish
      April 24, 2016

      Five cans a week is pretty good Trish. I’d gotten down to 1 x 600ml bottle a day which I think was pretty good. But… it just got too hard to buy. If I can get my need for it out of my system I’ll probably still have the occasional one when out or something…

  • mintedrogue
    April 24, 2016

    Wow selling your place! That’s so exciting. Good Iuck!

    • Debbish
      April 24, 2016

      Exciting AND scary! I’m a bit over it already and it’s not even officially listed anywhere!

  • Maree
    April 24, 2016

    Wow, big changes coming! Good luck! 🙂

  • Denyse Whelan
    April 24, 2016

    Dear Deb, congratulations lady…almost the end of the month and you are rocking your own blogging challenge!! As for the other stuff….cleaning the house, putting it on the market, giving up coke..ha! Nailing it. I am so proud to call you my blogging every day buddy! Denyse xx

    • Debbish
      April 25, 2016

      Thanks Denyse. The blogging everyday thing has been a challenge with this other stuff happening but I’m nearly there! x

  • Grace @ Rebel Mommy Book Blog
    April 24, 2016

    Good luck with selling your place and moving and all that jazz. It is a hard but exciting thing! Enjoy your week!

  • Emma
    April 24, 2016

    When we moved house I went into overdrive so I completely appreciate where you are coming from…I basically repainted the house in a week – all beige and white – because I’ve watched too many “sell your house” type shows. Hope you manage to get everything done in time.

    • Debbish
      April 25, 2016

      I have to keep reminding myself that there’s two things I need to keep in mind: the photos (and I can move stuff out of the way etc); and then the open houses which will come in a few days time. (That gives me a few days for the final flourishes!)

  • Daniela Ark
    April 24, 2016

    Funny you mention the pics at dawn! The realtor that sold my house to us only did appointments at sunset for us and it worked! I was in love with the sunsets over the lake and bought the house 🙂 I hope you don’t get too stress though gluten-free Twisties sound wonderful! I have no idea what Caramello Koalas are but anything with caramel sound good too! good luck this week Debbie.

  • Millicent Nankivell
    April 24, 2016

    Hey Deborah! It’s Millicent – the one who went on a bit of a rant on Facebook earlier today! I love the look of your blog, thank you for sharing it with me! I’m eager to hear why you’ve dropped the Diet Vanilla Coke – Vanilla Coke is my kryptonite. Good luck with the dawn photography, that sounds stressful!

    xx

    • Debbish
      April 25, 2016

      I’ve struggled to be able to find Vanilla Diet Coke Millicent. Over the past 5-6 years it initially disappeared from major supermarkets (only to be found at IGAs and similar). On the Fraser Coast (where I live) there were three stores which stocked it and now they’ve all stopped. There’s a place in a food court which sells the 600ml bottles.

      I’ve long been a diet coke addict. At uni (almost 30yrs ago!!!) I was drinking 2 litres of DC a day! I’ve cut back at times but my former dentist used to say the only thing that’s saved my teeth has been the amount of water I also drink.

      I got addicted to lemon diet coke for a while and then it went off the market, so I quit. But one day at work I was feeling weary so bought a vanilla DC. And the same the next day. I found it too sweet but the caffeine helped. (I don’t drink tea or coffee.) And next thing I knew VDC was my new drug drink of choice.

      I suspect I’ll have the occasional diet coke now but will ‘try’ not to become addicted to that!

  • Maureen Beatrice
    April 24, 2016

    Good luck with selling your house Deb. We are also in the middle of getting our house on the market. Very stressful business. Especially without caffeine!! So.. bravo!! 😉
    Awesome that your still going strong with your challenge.
    Have a great week and Happy Reading!

    • Debbish
      April 25, 2016

      I know… I didn’t time that very well did I Maureen?! Hope your sales prep goes well!

  • Stormi D Johnson
    April 24, 2016

    Wow, what a view from your house! Good luck with selling it and I hope you find something you will love. Happy reading!

    Stormi
    Week in Review

    • Debbish
      April 25, 2016

      I know Stormi, I’ll be really sad to lose this view. I suspect I take it for granted but do glance out often and perhaps I just inhale the view and move on… If I could afford a house on the esplanade I’d be staying right across the road from the ocean!

  • laurelrainsnow
    April 25, 2016

    Oh, I hated when my house was on the market! Every day could bring more people to scrutinize…I finally had the realtor take the lockbox off so I would had to be there when they came. I had a cat then, and “lookers” don’t shut doors behind them, I’ve noticed.

    Mine was on the market for nine months…it was right when the market was doing its downturn. So…never again! After i sold, I rented, planning for it to be temporary, but I realize I love calling the management to have repairs done, etc. Hmm.

    Whatever you do, enjoy! Here are
    MY WEEKLY UPDATES

    • Debbish
      April 25, 2016

      Nine months – that’s horrible Laurel. I had my previous apartment on the market for 3mths and it didn’t sell in 2011 and it was a nightmare – having to constantly have everything read ‘in case’ someone came through. I’ve signed a 3mth contract with my sales rep so will have a break if it doesn’t sell during that time.

  • kimbacaffeinate
    April 25, 2016

    Selling and moving are stressful. Did I miss where you are going? As a teen we had a fountain shop/dinner and I always got diet coke with vanilla. Of course that was back before they made vanilla coke or I was old enough to discover the bliss that is coffee! Good luck with everything my friend!

    • Debbish
      April 25, 2016

      I’m just moving elsewhere in town Kimberly. I’m a bit over the body corporate stuff in my apartment complex, want a third bedroom and something a little more private and homey.

      I read (ages ago) that the reason Coke made Lemon Diet Coke and Coke was that people added a slice of lemon (or shot of vanilla) to their drinks!

  • Heather Duff (@hross42)
    April 25, 2016

    I love full fat Vanilla coke and it seems to be off the supermarket shelves here. Those koalas sweets look tasty too, the last time my sisters in law came over from Brisbane they brought really lovely Cadburys chocolate fish, they are the best and you cant get them here.

    Good luck with selling your house, that view is lovely.

    Have a great week!

    • Debbish
      April 25, 2016

      I shared a link on Daniela’s comment to a post I wrote about Caramello Koalas years ago Heather… I suspect you can’t get them elsewhere though perhaps there’s something similar! My niece has just moved to China and I’m trying to work out what to send her in her first care package!

  • Char
    April 25, 2016

    All that work is why I will die in my house. I’m never, ever, ever going to move. Yes, I am lazy.

    • Debbish
      April 25, 2016

      I can’t believe how bloody hard I’m finding it Char. I know I’m moaning a lot on Facebook but it’s also made me realise how unfit and unhealthy I am. I was sore from carrying stuff to my uncle’s trailer (awkward movements carrying heavy objects) but just from mopping etc my back has been killing me. I usually use the complex cleaners when I do a ‘big’ clean but they weren’t available!

  • Kathryn
    April 25, 2016

    All the best with the Sale and hope you find a house that you really love. Avoiding apartments that belong to a block no doubt.

    • Debbish
      April 25, 2016

      Yes Kathryn… am on the lookout for a house this time around!

  • Katherine @ I Wish I Lived in a Library
    April 25, 2016

    I don’t know what caramello koalas are but I do know that I want some! Good luck with the moving prep! I think keeping your evenings as close to normal is a really good idea otherwise you (or I would) end up just being frazzled. Sorry to hear you’re giving up caffeine and I would definitely miss vanilla diet cokes! They’re hard to find here but it’s a happy day when I do. Have a great week!

  • Kristen Burns
    April 25, 2016

    Wow, it sounds like you have way too much work to do with the house stuff. Good luck with all of it! About the soda, if you’re just trying to give up soda, you can probably find caffeine elsewhere (I buy Crystal Light, but I don’t know if you have that in Australia). But if you’re trying to give up caffeine, I’m just sorry. Lol.

    • Debbish
      April 25, 2016

      It’s mostly abut the soda Kristen – bad for my teeth and fake sugar in general I guess.

      I haven’t heard of Crystal Light so will google it!

  • Jo
    April 25, 2016

    So excited to win the book! Thanks so much…have a great week…

    • Debbish
      April 25, 2016

      It’ll be in the mail tomorrow, so enjoy!

  • Tracy @ Cornerfolds
    April 25, 2016

    It doesn’t sound like your week was too bad! So sorry about your Vanilla Coke! I love that stuff, but I only drink diet and very occasionally! I could never give up my morning coffee though! Congrats (?) on selling your house though! Have a fantastic week! 😀

    Here’s my Weekly Recap!

    • Debbish
      April 25, 2016

      Ah yes I only have the Vanilla Diet Coke too Tracy. I think you can still get Vanilla Coke here, but the Vanilla Diet Coke seems to be disappearing… If only I drank tea or coffee. (I don’t like hot drinks for some unknown reason!)

  • readerbuzz
    April 25, 2016

    How brave of you to sell your home and give up Vanilla Diet Coke in the same week!

    http://readerbuzz.blogspot.com/2016/04/its-deweys-24-hour-read-thon-vamos-leer.html

    • Debbish
      April 26, 2016

      I know…. not necessarily a great decision in retrospect! 🙁

  • Nise' (Under the Boardwalk)
    April 26, 2016

    With such a lovely view I can’t see why your house won’t sell quickly. Sorry you have to give up vanilla diet coke, I am not sure it is still available here. I gave up diet soda 11 years ago and don’t miss it (now!). It was so hard. Now if I could do the same with all sweets! Love reading in the tub. Have a great week.

    • Debbish
      April 26, 2016

      I think I’m finally getting past the VDC cravings but I’m still missing it. I’d go back on it in a second!

  • Tressa
    April 26, 2016

    I know exactly what you mean by it being the end of April already. I’m still wondering where March went. I’m NOT ready for May!!! Selling a place is a lot of work, so I hope it goes really well and you also find what you want to move into. Thanks for stopping by and enjoy your week!

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